Perhaps nothing is ever quite as painful as
getting over someone you have been deeply
and truly loving. You thought you'd spend the
rest of your lives together. You made plans for
the future to live together or go to college
together and to get married. You have loads of
jokes and memories of the time you spent
together. Now that it's over, you're scared that
you'll never find anyone to ever replace them,
or maybe you're just afraid that you won’t ever
be as happy with someone else. Many
thoughts and wishes are running in your head
right now. You are totally confused and don’t
know what to do to get him or her off your
mind. My dear; think, worry and cry no more
these are the 10 WAYS on how u can get over
that superb dude or that hot irresistible lady
you were loving
1. Don't Email, IM, phone, or even say hi; it
will open wounds that you are trying to close.
Don't answer calls from them either.
2. Take him or her off your minds; don’t ever
praise him/her again and avoid looking at his/
her lovely snaps. Never jump to answer his/her
calls again and don’t go out with them again
for dinners and others trips.
3. Don’t contact that person anymore; Break off
his/her contact otherwise you’ll run mad.
Don’t beg or cry for him/her back just relax.
4. Avoid his or her friends and the hanging
places; don’t venture into his or her territories
but find new places 4 your leisure and make
new friends. if any of your pals insist that you
call them up then shut them up.
5. Keep away anything that reminds you of
that lover; don’t burn the pictures, Pillows,
clothes, letters, gifts and many others but
keep them out of your reach.
6. Don’t get back all your stuff from him or her
unless it’s a diamond ring but things like
bling’s, shoes, suits, bags, jewelry’s, cars….
Just let him go with them.
7. Remember the bad times you had with him;
recall the time he or she shouted at you at
you work place, at home, in the restaurant, in
the cinema, at the beach, in the conference,
on the date for no good reason. Think of the
time that dude or gal annoyed you, cheated on
you and many more then all the good
moments will vanish away.
8. Avoid getting closer to him/her again. This
will help you to forget all the moments you
shared together.
9. Stop mentioning his or her name all the
time
10. Go play some games, go to the cinema or
do things that will make u get that lover off
your mind.
TIPS
• Find a friend to gush everything out to. Or if
he/she is into talking things out then just let
everything out, even the littlest things can
make a difference. Sometimes it can take a
while for everything to make its way out but
afterwards both of you will feel a lot better.
Usually it can take about four days per month
together. Just make sure you don't get
annoying, if you do, it's a good idea to find a
journal to write your feelings in.
• Get your friends in on helping you.
• Make a list of all the things you've always
wanted to do and do them. You don't need a
man/woman in your life to make you happy
and some time with yourself will help you to
appreciate yourself.
• Ask yourself why you want them. Is it
because you're lonely and want someone,
anyone to keep you company and to have fun
with? You don't need a man/woman to do that,
a platonic friend is all you need.
• Don't go on the rebound and get with the
first person you find. You won't be happy and
you'll be comparing your new partner to your
last because you didn't have enough time to
get over them and start afresh.
• Play something like winter bells, angry birds
or Bubble Shooter, as they're both very mind
numbing games and they won't let you think
about him/her
• Move on. Add some new things to your life;
let some of the old things drop.
Try and remember what they done to hurt you
and then you use that hurt to build up the
confidence to move on
• Read a book.
WARNINGS
a) You will cry.
b) You may want him or her back but don't
give in! It will erase all of the progress you
have made.
c) Sometimes being friends with them might
not help either. If you need to...just try and
drift away. It may be best for the both of you.
d) Even if your ex wants to be friends, it's
really hard for most people who are really in
love because it will bring up all those old
memories of being together. The easier way is
to cut all ties if possible.
e) Don't try to find out information from
friends of your ex about what he/she is up to
or whether he/she has a new partner, etc. It
will make you look desperate and it will more
than likely be reported back to your ex.
My dear friend rise up and get strong again.
Cease thinking about that old lover. Just know
it’s not the end and life goes on. The way you
got him or her is the same way God will help
u get a new one. Always believe and have
hope knowing that no situation is permanent
on earth and everything comes in your life for
a reason.
GOD BLESS YOU AND THANKS FOR READING
THIS
getting over someone you have been deeply
and truly loving. You thought you'd spend the
rest of your lives together. You made plans for
the future to live together or go to college
together and to get married. You have loads of
jokes and memories of the time you spent
together. Now that it's over, you're scared that
you'll never find anyone to ever replace them,
or maybe you're just afraid that you won’t ever
be as happy with someone else. Many
thoughts and wishes are running in your head
right now. You are totally confused and don’t
know what to do to get him or her off your
mind. My dear; think, worry and cry no more
these are the 10 WAYS on how u can get over
that superb dude or that hot irresistible lady
you were loving
1. Don't Email, IM, phone, or even say hi; it
will open wounds that you are trying to close.
Don't answer calls from them either.
2. Take him or her off your minds; don’t ever
praise him/her again and avoid looking at his/
her lovely snaps. Never jump to answer his/her
calls again and don’t go out with them again
for dinners and others trips.
3. Don’t contact that person anymore; Break off
his/her contact otherwise you’ll run mad.
Don’t beg or cry for him/her back just relax.
4. Avoid his or her friends and the hanging
places; don’t venture into his or her territories
but find new places 4 your leisure and make
new friends. if any of your pals insist that you
call them up then shut them up.
5. Keep away anything that reminds you of
that lover; don’t burn the pictures, Pillows,
clothes, letters, gifts and many others but
keep them out of your reach.
6. Don’t get back all your stuff from him or her
unless it’s a diamond ring but things like
bling’s, shoes, suits, bags, jewelry’s, cars….
Just let him go with them.
7. Remember the bad times you had with him;
recall the time he or she shouted at you at
you work place, at home, in the restaurant, in
the cinema, at the beach, in the conference,
on the date for no good reason. Think of the
time that dude or gal annoyed you, cheated on
you and many more then all the good
moments will vanish away.
8. Avoid getting closer to him/her again. This
will help you to forget all the moments you
shared together.
9. Stop mentioning his or her name all the
time
10. Go play some games, go to the cinema or
do things that will make u get that lover off
your mind.
TIPS
• Find a friend to gush everything out to. Or if
he/she is into talking things out then just let
everything out, even the littlest things can
make a difference. Sometimes it can take a
while for everything to make its way out but
afterwards both of you will feel a lot better.
Usually it can take about four days per month
together. Just make sure you don't get
annoying, if you do, it's a good idea to find a
journal to write your feelings in.
• Get your friends in on helping you.
• Make a list of all the things you've always
wanted to do and do them. You don't need a
man/woman in your life to make you happy
and some time with yourself will help you to
appreciate yourself.
• Ask yourself why you want them. Is it
because you're lonely and want someone,
anyone to keep you company and to have fun
with? You don't need a man/woman to do that,
a platonic friend is all you need.
• Don't go on the rebound and get with the
first person you find. You won't be happy and
you'll be comparing your new partner to your
last because you didn't have enough time to
get over them and start afresh.
• Play something like winter bells, angry birds
or Bubble Shooter, as they're both very mind
numbing games and they won't let you think
about him/her
• Move on. Add some new things to your life;
let some of the old things drop.
Try and remember what they done to hurt you
and then you use that hurt to build up the
confidence to move on
• Read a book.
WARNINGS
a) You will cry.
b) You may want him or her back but don't
give in! It will erase all of the progress you
have made.
c) Sometimes being friends with them might
not help either. If you need to...just try and
drift away. It may be best for the both of you.
d) Even if your ex wants to be friends, it's
really hard for most people who are really in
love because it will bring up all those old
memories of being together. The easier way is
to cut all ties if possible.
e) Don't try to find out information from
friends of your ex about what he/she is up to
or whether he/she has a new partner, etc. It
will make you look desperate and it will more
than likely be reported back to your ex.
My dear friend rise up and get strong again.
Cease thinking about that old lover. Just know
it’s not the end and life goes on. The way you
got him or her is the same way God will help
u get a new one. Always believe and have
hope knowing that no situation is permanent
on earth and everything comes in your life for
a reason.
GOD BLESS YOU AND THANKS FOR READING
THIS
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